Healing Can Come Through Modifying And Changing Your Behaviour
It’s ironical isn’t it?
That they don’t even need the quick fix they run to
believing that it will magically solve their problem as they hand over their
problems to the doctor to sort out and solve for them, in exchange for some
quick fix via the exchange of money.
Yet they seem to forget the fundamental and universal
truth: all healing is self-healing.
Nobody but yourself can bring healing to yourself, solve
your health and sub health challenges and bring back sound health and vitality
into your life except you.
Yes – You and no-one else.
The way forward is to fist accept responsibility for
everything that has happened to you:
The events
The situation
The circumstances
The condition
Everything.
Then you can sit down to do a critical review of what
brought it on and how you had derailed to the point that your situation became
what it is.
Let me illustrate with the following examples:
First off is the case of a smoker who is actually a chain
smoker, he gets his high from the puff of the cigarette and advertently
consumes many sticks of cigarette a day over a long period of time, usually
years.
One day his health get bad, it actually has been building
up over a period of time but he refuses to take responsible for it but rather
cooks up some lame stories in his mind and continue in this lifestyle having
the fun of his life.
He has no recourse to what the consequences might be or
the implication in the long run!
He is simply living his life!
Then one day, karma comes due and his health is so bad
that he has to go see the doctor (he is coughing very bad now and has breathing
problems plus he looks weak and fragile)
He just wants the doctor to take away his pain and
discomfort and give him a quick fix in exchange for money so that he can go
back to his unhealthy lifestyle.
But he runs into a stalemate here!
The doctor cannot fix him this time round because his
health had deteriorated and he has to take responsibility for his life and
health this time around as the doctor’s quick fix can longer fix him.
It’s that bad!
He has two choices right in front of him and both of them
have their consequences!
Either he changes and takes responsibility for his
deteriorating or deteriorated state of health (according to the state he is in)
so that he can modify and change the behaviour that pushes him into that state
where cigarette is bliss to him.
This is usually caused by a mindset – negative mindset –
thoughts and emotions.
Or he can continue in this destructive lifestyle that is
gradually but surely killing him and bringing an end to his existence.
His cells and eventually the entire system shuts down and
that inevitably results in his death and demise.
All because he refused to modify and change his behaviour
which has accrued from negative thinking habits and emotions that shuts down
cell depriving them of basic nourishment and energy for optimum growth and
vitality.
The second case is that of a woman who is so sad because
of the loss of her child and sees only sorrow and pain and cannot see beyond
the pain and anguish,
She questions why life is so unfair to her and why the
world is such a wicked and unhappy place.
She doesn’t even want to or try to understand why what
had happened to her happened and that there is a reason for everything that
happens to man.
The law of karma says “what you sow, is what you reap”
Moreover she is only looking at life from the position of
this lifetime without the vantage point of the divine essence that she is,
which would have opened her up to the various lifetimes that she has lived.
This is not the only place and time you have lived, you
have lived many lifetimes all in search of finding your true self which is the
divine essence inside your body.
If she surrenders to what had happened and is happening
to her, being neither for nor against it but only embracing that which is in
the present moment. She realizes that everything that happened is what it’s
meant to be and how it is supposed to me.
There is no error or mistake in life in the divine creation.
Once she is in the spirit of acceptance of what is and
surrenders to the situation, the creative center and faculty within her opens
and out comes the truth outpouring to her, nourishing her with its divine
knowledge, wisdom and understanding.
St that point she totally will understand why she is
going through what she is going through and would understand that life is not
unfair, neither is it hard on her nor punishing her nor anybody.
Life is just what it is!
She has created what is happening to her at a point in
her life whether she remembers or not or believes or not.
Karma is an exact and just law.
She opens her heart in gratitude and love, her creative
center opens as the heart is filled with love and joy and she has the vantage
point of her divine essence to see, know and understand everything.
Now she knows why everything happened the way it did so
she can now modify and change her behaviour as her thoughts and emotions have
changed from negative to positive and now healing truly begins.
But if she continues and persists in her negative
thinking and emotions, over time her cells start to shut down as they are
deprived of basic nourishments and energy. Her system soon follows suit and she
ends up with the doctor at the hospital.
If she still doesn’t correct her defective mindset, she
only gets progressively worse and eventually her death and demise will be the
end of her,
But if she corrects her defective thinking which modifies
and changes her behaviour and outlook on life, her health and vitality improves
and healing can truly begin.
So whatever state you are and whatever you choose to do
about it, its all in your hands and all have their own consequences.
So choose wisely!
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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