The Things That Change Us Are Already Within Us
“The people who get
on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they
want, and, if they can’t find them, make them.”
George Bernard
Shaw"
Usually
people are too busy looking for others to push the blame on as they are so hardened
and won’t take responsibility for the actions, done by them that has caused the
situation or condition that they are currently facing.
It’s so
easy and cool to push the blame on another and absolve yourself of any wrong
doing, lamenting and labelling yourself as the victim in this classic drama
that you have consciously or unconsciously created for yourself.
Giving the
opportunity to run the narratives of your life, the mind goes into overdrive,
creating this untrue and totally false story of the narrative of your life and
unfortunately for you, that’s what exactly what manifests in your life.
As you
thought it and created it consciously or unconsciously, that’s how it manifests
in your life and becomes your reality and what’s happening to you in your life.
Can I
change this narrative to something better you ask?
Absolutely
yes, you can but there are steps to be taken to change the narratives and they
include but are not limited to:
First and
foremost you must accept responsibility for your life and its conditions, after
all you created it all whether you accept it or not or whether you believe it
or not.
Under spiritual
law, excuse or denial is not an excuse as you are held accountable to all your:
Thoughts
Words
Actions
The above
are the creators and facilitators of all your experiences and reality in your
life so either ways you see, nobody and absolutely nothing did it to you.
You did it
to yourself!
This
reminds me of a little story about an event in the magistrate court in Nigeria where
an elderly gentleman was held for raping a little girl of six.
He pleaded
with the magistrate (who unfortunately for him is a female and a mother too),
he told her that he didn’t do it as it was the fault of the Devil who pushed
him into the dastardly act.
The
magistrate in her wisdom calmed him down and told him that she totally
understood him and there was no problem, but that he had to produce the devil
for him to be free.
She
explained that “the law” requires a culprit to be held accountable for the act
and since he said that the devil pushed him into doing it, he should simply
produce the devil and as soon as the devil is in custody, he was free to go.
Well, that
brought on laughter and smiles from people in the court house, because they all
know that he is going nowhere.
They also
know that there is no way he can or could produce the devil (absolutely not –
have you ever seen the devil in flesh and blood?).
Whether he
likes it or not, he must face the consequences of his actions as he cannot escape
the law and judgement day.
Yet I can
see how this whole drama played out until the act was carried out.
Let me
illustrate it below:
He started
with thoughts of sex and making love and probably no wife or girlfriend around
to satisfy his urge. I believe he didn’t have the means to pay a hooker and the
urge kept him on his toes.
The mind
kept him occupied with the thoughts and before you can say “jack” the feelings
associated with sex and love making exploded in his mind and took total control
of his senses.
That’s when he lost it!
He lost total control of himself as the mind was now in
control and running his narratives and he simply must satisfy his urge at all
cost.
He sees the little one and lures his unsuspecting victim
into the room and forcefully has his way with her, and he is eventually found
out most probably by the parents of the little girl or neighbours.
But if he was in control of his mind and therefore the
narratives, right within him are the high vibrations of love, gratitude, joy, peace
and happiness to name a few.
At this high vibrations, he would have been able to bring
down this sexual urge and calm himself enough until he finds the right partner
to mate with.
Then he wouldn’t be in the predicament he found himself
in and wouldn’t be looking for another to pin the blame upon.
So you can see how the three factors above create your
reality and experience and how you must run the show, and not allow the mind to
run the show.
If you don’t, you may be forced to face yourself like the
elderly gentleman in the story illustrated above.
Thankfully, the things that can change us is always
within us and all you have to do is re-align yourself to the divine
consciousness and beingness that is the true you.
When you are in this high state, you can absolutely
control the steering wheel of your life, if you are going in the wrong
direction you can turn back to the right route and head back out.
Then you can create the reality that you have dreamed off
and wish you, all by yourself.
But remember, it starts first with taking the rein of
your life and be willing and ready to do the work to correct the errors and
mistakes, you have done already to create the conditions and circumstances of
your present life.
When you do that, everything opens out to you and you
have 360 degrees viewpoint of your life and everything in it – the past, the
present and the future.
All true healing is self-healing!
You get to do it yourself and others can only get to
assist and show you how, but they can’t do it for you.
It’s that simple!
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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