Are You Imprisoned In Your Mind
The mind is such a powerful and fundamental tool at our
disposal that so many aren’t even aware nor able to grasp the fundamental truth
so near at their finger tip.
The mind is the greatest tool that man has been blessed with
upon his sojourn on earth and it is supposed, I repeat supposed to be a handy
man and a means to an end for man to handle any and all the challenges and
problems that man maybe thrown at in the course of his life experiences.
Yet again man isn’t fully aware of this amazing yet
simple truth that is available to him. He is so caught up and totally wrapped
up in the schemes and mechanics of his mind that he is lost to the real person
inside – his real reality and true essence.
Why?
He think and believes that he is his mind!
Everything that is thrown at him he accepts, hook line
and sinker and believes he is the thinker of the thoughts. He doesn’t even stop
for a moment to even take a step back ask himself if he really the one bringing
forth these thoughts or someone or something else within himself.
He is totally so wrapped up in his play acting and being
in a semi state of reality where he thinks he is in control but in reality, he
is not in control of anything. Neither
his life nor reality for his choices in thoughts, words and actions.
This whole thing then begets the question – are you
imprisoned by your mind? The one tool that should be a helper and a servant to
you the master and controller.
This creates the obvious reality in the world all around
us where so many aren’t even aware that they are conditioned and controlled and
ultimately imprisoned in their own minds.
They slumber on carrying out their daily activities which
they think yet again is their own doing and conscious thought, but do not realize
that it is till yet a part of their subconscious programming that has been set
in place and motion from childhood.
We are conditioned and programmed to wake up in the
morning and go through our usual routine of everyday life and at night, close
our eyes in sleep and rest and to awaken the next day to the same routine,
practically the same thing for the rest of our lives.
How many of us are even aware of the fact that we haven’t
really consciously chosen our life the way it is and that all that we think is
normal routine is unconscious subconscious programming that has been set in
place from past lives to the present one and to childhood.
In childhood we are trained and conditioned to observe,
follow and mimic people and their actions and suppose and believe, that this is
the way things should be.
We assume that since its family and loved ones that
whatever they do is the right way of life and the right thing to do and as such
imprint that into our mind over and over and over again until it becomes a
solid core belief and starts working out as a reality in your life.
Even when these actions are wrong and morally incorrect,
who is there to guide you and show you that such is wrong and can only lead to
destruction and fatality?
Take the case of children who are born into homes where
domestic violence is the norm and the order of the day and they actually
witness their mothers and sister and other females being brutalized, who is
there to show these young ones that this act is born of fear and anger and not
love.
Who is there to show them that love embraces all and only
acts in the best interest of all its beloved and can suffer and endures all
things for them and for their sake?
Nobody is or nobody cares enough!
So the child registers this in his subconscious and it
becomes a belief and habit and as he continuously and constantly observes more
and more of this scenario in his life, his belief grows more and more that this
is the way to be and the way of life.
His subconscious takes up this view of reality and starts
manifesting it in his life when the time comes after it has solidified over
years of silently and unconsciously cementing it for subsequent manifestation
in his life.
When these cycles then manifest and play out in his life
later as a reality, society labels him and gives him names that are erroneously
incorrect haven forgotten the roles played my family and loved ones in
perpetuating this sad reality.
He is humiliated, disgraced, embarrassed and subjected to
trial and subsequent imprisonment without a fair hearing that is unbiased and
free of criticism and resentment.
They forget that he is just a victim of circumstances and
failed parenting and is subsequently imprisoned in his mind as he believes he
is acting in the right way and would uphold this view no matter what and defend
himself as best as he can.
If people and the society at large would but take a
moment to critically review this case and see things objectively and from the
standpoint of the whole, rather than in parts that the law courts always have
cases involved in, they would marvel and be less critical and condemning of
these people.
They would realize that society failed them as custodians
of the law to train them into responsible citizens, guidance to guide them in
making the right choices and understanding that in life you have a choice but
are not oblivious of the consequences associated with whatever choice or
choices made.
The family unit as a whole also has the responsibility of
pointing the child in the right direction so that the he understands what he is
doing and can make the right choice confidently.
But alas society has yet to understand that crimes of
passion and most cases of domestic violence are actually people imprisoned in
their own minds and guided by their subconscious programming from childhood
which they haven’t outgrown.
In most cases, it is false and wrong images they carry in
their mind from childhood, that no-one has taken the time to help them correct
and which they grow with into adulthood believing such to be true and the right
choice.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
This is all for now!
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questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
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