Change Is Not To Be Feared But Rather Embraced
Why are people so afraid of change? Say the word to a group of people like in a seminar, conference, class, I mean a gathering of people and you can see their heart palpitations and nervousness like something bad is about to happen.You are afraid to surrender and embrace change because
you don’t want to lose control, but you never had control all you ever had was
fear and anxiety, both causing the fear to embrace change and a new way of
seeing things.
Why do people associate or equate change with something
to fear or fear of the unknown, yet the unknown holds so much treasure and
promise if only we can embrace it and welcome it gladly with open arms.
Many have been afraid of changes in their lives but upon
accepting and embracing it has come to discover that it was a great source of
blessing and miracle in their lives.
There are countless examples all over the world to
buttress my point and testimonies too numerous to share of people who have been
blessed by a simple change.
For some it has brought about great healing that for so
long, they had battled to find and end their challenges and problems but all to
no avail.
For others it has opened their sense of being and allowed
them to discover the truth about who there are at the core of their beingness,
they have allowed themselves to shed the fear that had held them captive for so
long.
As soon as they had shed the fear or the need to fear
what they do not know nor understand, they had come to such peace and joy as
they embraced their true divinity and found only bliss there.
Their embrace only brought greater understanding and
wisdom that they would never had nor dreamt of coming though did they hold unto
the fear of the unknown.
Why do you fear the unknown so much?
Why do you fear what you don’t know nor understand?
Yet the answer or solution lies in not resisting this
unknown and the tandem change that consequently comes with it, but totally and
wholesomely embracing this change and keying in into this great gift of the
divine source.
Many have been cured of “incurable diseases and
disorders, malady and ailment” as soon as they chose to embrace this condition
and seek to understand it and why it is happening to them and in their lives.
There is always a spiritual lesson in ever ailment,
malady, disease, disorder or conditions that assail the body and forces you to
take a closer look at your life, especially at your habits and conditionings.
A lot of people don’t understand that it is our habits
that creates the behaviour and attitudes that are responsible for our lot in
life.
Yet at any given opportunity they would rather dodge
change than have to do something differently than the way the subconscious mind
wants to do it.
If you recall, you would remember that the subconscious
is a “habit mind” that is resistant and in some cases violently resistant to
change and would do anything and everything to keep you attuned to the ways it
is used to.
Even though these old ways are outdated and no longer
serve you, it will argue and try to convince you how it pays you better since
it is the path you are accustomed to.
It wouldn’t show how this same path or course of action
in the past had yielded nothing or no tangible results for you.
Yet the answer to changing your life and the course of
your life, especially if you are dissatisfied and not happy with your life is
through this same change.
Ironical isn’t it?
No matter which course or direction you are on or where
your life is headed, change is inevitable whether you like it or not or whether
you believe it or not.
Remember the popular slogan “the only constant thing in
life is change”
Anything impossible becomes possible through change.
Change brings growth, empowerment and transformation.
If there is no change in your life then you are stagnant
and when you are stagnant, then you are dying and will eventually die or cease
to exist in this particular form you are in for this existence.
When you cease to exist in this particular state, you are
transformed into another state and continue your existence.
You are energy!
You are pure light!
You are light and love!
There is nothing absolutely to fear as change comes and
you embrace it but so much to gain and enjoy as you fold into its pure joy and ecstasy
and it envelopes you in its embrace of pure love.
By virtue of spiritual law nothing remains stagnant as
either you are moving forward or you are going backwards but either ways there
is movement and you are moving according to your state of consciousness.
Many more have discovered the joy and bliss of change and
ever evolving and finding their true being and self. This has opened up the
meaning of life and who and why they are here.
They have come into greater understanding that has left
them entranced in the majesty of change and they are ever evolving and becoming
more and more aware of themselves and who they really are.
So I put it across to you dear friend, why are you so
afraid of change?
Why not give into your fear and instead of being afraid
of what you don’t know and since fear is nothing but a thought in the mind,
it’s the usual narratives of the mind, that keeps you trapped in the old and
not wanting you to be free to find the new.
It knows the new shall set you free and you shall become
a new person and a new being ever evolving and with greater awareness and
higher state of consciousness.
Why not challenge yourself then and face this thing
called fear that you had previously feared because you had thought that it was
a monster, you will be amazed at what you will discover.
Shall I let you on, on a secret?
Here it is then:
You will be dumbfounded or astonished to discover that
what you thought was a giant monster or monstrosity (usually the play of
illusion by the mind to keep you trapped and unable to discover the truth about
your real self), was actually nothing more than a scared little mice.
Imagine that?
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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