Discrimination Is A Vital Key To A Happier Life

Life always gives us a set of choices and the onus on us is to choose which one we would rather do with or which way we would rather go but at the same time, it holds us accountable for the choices made and for each choice there is a consequence attached whether you like it or not.

Now don’t roll your eyes or be afraid of “consequences”, they are only there as a check and balance tool or meter to make sure that you make the best choice given the circumstances before you.

This is where discrimination as an effective tool to aid you in making the right and consequently the best choice comes into effect.

Discrimination is the act of distinction, discernment or distinguishing between two or more things or perceiving differences between things.

As you can discern from the above, there is always a choice to be made in the way you want your life to turn out to be, either for good or for bad, happy or sad, wealth or poverty.

It’s all in your hands!

If you want a happy and even happier life, then the onus is on you and you alone to make that your reality.

This is where discrimination and responsibility takes center stage.

Life always throws challenges and problems at us and also gives us the opportunity to resolve these challenges and problems that were your choice in the first place.

How do I mean?

Thoughts are things! So many make the mistake of not understanding the power of the statement above and take it for granted.

They have such powerful negative energy and mostly get caught up in the vortex of the negativity that they see in the world and that is of the world.

Before you know it, they are creating such powerful negatively charged events in their life and they complain and lament about their lot in life.

They supercharge the negativity as the mind creates more narratives and they get lost in these stories that are just fictitious and not true.

The mind spins this huge web of lies and deceit that if they aren’t careful could hold them in its grasp and they believe totally in the illusion that they assume is their reality.

With discrimination as their tool in the world, they get to understand that the world is a dual world as seen through the eyes – light and dark, positive and negative, love and anger.

With this powerful tool of discernment, you can get to weigh the options before you as you understand that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction and you are held accountable for all choices made, whether positive or negative, good for bad and must face the music.

When you decide to go the way of love, gratitude fills your heart with joy and happiness and you find yourself operating at a high rate of vibration.

You find all your cells and tissues, the immune system and endocrine system and the entire body vibrating at a high frequency which promotes sound health and vitality and you are the better for it.

You find that everything that you have ever wanted and desired you attract in to your life and life couldn’t be any better and as you look at life and nature, you see and understand the interconnectivity of life and how you are one with nature and everything.

But when you choice to vibrate at a lower frequency of fear, anger, bitterness and resentment, you find that somehow you seem to suddenly find yourself in poor health lacking strength and vitality.

To make matters worse, your life suddenly seems to take the downward dive into gloom and doom and your greatest nightmare becomes your reality.

Nothing seems to work for you and everything you have dreaded or dreaded comes to pass and that when life becomes “unfair and wicked”.

It seems like everybody is after you and want to take you down and that your body’s health and vitality goes into a downward dive that creates great health challenges and problems.

Yet again exist a neutral group to the extreme which is more like a balance force to help you stay balanced and focused.

When you realize that booth good and bad are just but states of consciousness and that heaven and hell exist in the here and now. It doesn’t refer to any place but to what is happening inside of us.

When you realize this, it becomes easy to neutralize negativity and negative emotions with positivity and positive ones.

Love for hatred, love for anger, gratitude for bitterness and resentment, humility for ego and all mind passions for virtues to create balance and harmony,

Discrimination as a powerful tool helps you stay balanced and connected to the deepest core of yourself living in gratitude and love always for the precious gift of life and the interconnection of all life.

Helps you make the right choice of the virtues as against the passions of the mind that spins a great web of deceit, lies and illusion that keeps you bound and chained until you can free yourself and take back control of your life and reality.

Ultimately your life is in your hands and discrimination is a powerful tool to help you and is vital to a happier life.

 

In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1.  THOUGHTS

2.  WORDS

3.  ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

This is all for now!

 

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