Changing Inaccurate Or Distorted Thinking Patterns Can Change Your Reality
Are you frustrated with your life and want it to change but you don’t know where to start or whether it’s even possible to change all these negative imagery you see in your thoughts that seem to manifest in your life.Do you even realize that the life you are living is the
one you have consciously or unconsciously created for yourself and that only
you can change your life if you want to or if you truly desire change.
Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise as they will only be
deceiving you and since there are so many false prophets preying on people and
making money off of them, be careful you don’t fall into their trap.
Wanting to do something and actually getting to do it are
two different things mind you!
Life is a series of events that are interconnected yet
each is a separate lesson with an invaluable lesson that is meant to equip you
with the right tools and skills on your sojourn and mission on earth to become
more Godlike.
Emotions are meant to teach you great wisdom only when
you allow them in without resistance of course, move with the flow of the
lesson inherent and let it play out.
Don’t try to manipulate the scheme of events or control
the outcome, because then you would only be deceiving yourself and come out the
ultimate loser.
Get this straight once and for all – you cannot control
the events of your life and you cannot control the divine essence from which
you spring from.
You are its beloved, borne out of its great love and
mercy and is sustained for as long as its love abides and your lesson in that
particular incarnation keeps running. Karmic lessons must be worked out and
resolved before you can move to the next level.
Most karmic lessons are just corrections of our mental
aberrations and they are:
1. Anger
which is principally borne out of fear
2. Greed
3. Vanity
4. Lust
5. Attachment
If you truly look at the list above and securitize
thoroughly, you would see that they are the ills of the world summarized into
simple terms and if you can guard and watch out for them then you have the
power to shape your life the way you want it and fulfil your destiny and
birthright.
Inaccurate or distorted thinking patterns are basically
borne out of anger, fear or any other strong emotion, when you allow the mind
to control your life out of unwillingness to accept responsibility for your
life, then it goes into overdrive to protect you.
The mind makes you believe that the world and its
creation is your enemy and that life is simply not fair yet this is a great
illusion because the laws of God and consequently that of the world is fair and
just.
Everything in your life you have created and manifested
whether you believe it or not.
Perceiving an unseen or imaginary enemy is the way of the
mind to keep you enmeshed in the throes of illusion and give control of your
life to it.
When you decide you have had enough and would rather want
to create your life as you want it then you are ready to take responsibility
for your life and recreate the events and circumstances of your life.
Then you would discover the deception and illusion
surrounding all that you have been taught and believed to be true especially
from childhood. You see how your childhood training had created a pattern that
has brought the chain of events of your life into existence and how you
manifested everything in your world.
Most times, the inaccurate and distorted thinking
patterns we carry with all throughout our lives were created from childhood
from our earliest memories from our parents, guardians or caregivers and we
swallowed it completely hook, line and sinker and took it as the gospel truth.
We weren’t informed at such young age to question a lot
of things we saw, heard or were told was the truth.
We were too young not to give into our strong emotions
back then and allow the mind in its bid to protect us from hurting ourselves
and acting as the master instead of the servant in this case, to take over
judgement and execute as it sees fit.
We were too young to understand life and its challenges
and were apt to refuse to take responsibility and unfortunately turning over
such to the mind, which in its lack of logic and judgement only executed as it
saw fit.
Those from dysfunctional families didn’t have the
opportunity of love and guidance that those from functional families have, so
they see the world different and chose not to love themselves nor believe in
love.
Again they gave control consciously or unconsciously to
the mind and gain it chose to execute as it saw it.
The mind keeps you enmeshed in its web of deceit and
illusion and you must struggle to break free or else be damned to a life of
unfairness and total anarchy.
Your inaccurate or distorted thinking patterns therefore
arose out of a great misunderstanding of life around you and created the
sadness and misery of your life right now. The mind will only do as you
commanded and do anything and everything to keep you safe.
In order to change this inaccurate and distorted thinking
patterns and consequently your life and everything in it, you have to really
understand life and get out of the illusion of seeing yourself as life’s
victim.
There is no victim anywhere!
You have to see life as what it truly is, an opportunity
to grow and evolve and be a better version of yourself in all ways. You can
only learn through hardships and suffering but you must not see them as such.
You only see them as the gems that have been brought your
way to work through and remove your weaknesses and flaw and help you grow and
evolve into a greater person and a more spiritual being.
Then only can your outer life start to change and your
life starts going in the direction you have always wanted and dreamt about.
Only then and there!
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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